These twin proposals of thinking,
feeling and acting in the same direction and treating others as one wants
to be treated, are so simple they might seem simply naive to those accustomed
to complications. However, behind this apparent innocence there is a new
scale of values where coherence is placed at the highest level; a new morality
for which the type of action is not a matter of indifference; a new aspiration
that involves being consistent in the effort of giving direction to the
human events. Behind this apparent innocence is a wager placed on a truly
evolutionary direction in personal and social life rather than one that
leads to disintegration. Today we cannot count on the old values that once
gave cohesion to people who held together in a social fabric that, day by
day deteriorates because of mistrust, isolation and growing individualism.
The ancient solidarity between the members of a given class, association,
institution or group is increasingly being replaced by a savage competition
that leaves unscathed, neither the bonds of the couple or the family. This
process of demolition will not see a new solidarity arise based ideas and
behaviors of a world that has vanished, but because of the concrete need
that each one has to give direction to their own lives thanks to which they
will have to modify their own environment. If that change is to be profound
and true it is not something that can be brought about by the imposition
of external laws, or through any kind of fanaticism but only through the
power of opinion and the direct exchange of points of view between those
that are part of the environment in which one lives.
Coherent
behavior
If we could think, feel and act in the same direction,
if what we did was not in contradiction with what we felt, we could say
our life has coherence. *We would be trustworthy with ourselves though not
necessarily trustworthy for our immediate environment. We must obtain the
same coherence in relation with others, treating them as we wish to be treated.
We know that there can exist a type of destructive coherence as we observe
in racists, exploiters, fanatics and the violent, but there incoherence
is made clear in the relations they have, because they treat others in a
way that is very different than what they desire for themselves.
This unity of thought, feeling and action, this unity between the treatment that that is asked for and the treatment that is given are ideals that are not realized in daily life. And that is the point. This is about adjusting our behavior around these proposals, this is about values that, when taken seriously, give direction to life, not withstanding the difficulties in faced in trying to realize them. We should understand the objective as one of gaining ground over time. Even though our actions do not, at the start, coincide with them, here intentions do count above all if those actions are sustained, improved and enlarged upon. These images of what we are trying to achieve give firm references that give direction in every situation. What we are saying is not very complicated. It wouldnt surprise us, for example, if a person orients their life toward achieving wealth, even if they knew in advance that they wouldnt achieve it. In any case, their ideal gives impulse to their actions even though it doesnt have quite the results they wanted. Why then, could one not understand that although our age may not favor thinking, feeling and acting in the same direction, nonetheless those vital ideals could give direction to human actions?
1-
Reading
2-
Personal
reflection: Make notes about situations in which you feel something but think
the opposite.
3-
Discussion
4-
Plan
one action for the week that makes you feel coherent.